I don't say anything other than be myself and try to give her an idea of my personality and she says things like "as I read that, it makes me melt" and "I ran to the computer, please let him reply please please!", which I find mad but I'm seriously chuffed to be making such an impact let me tell you! Last I heard from her was she'd read my message, liked what I said a lot (nothing saucy, no bragging, just getting-to-know kinda stuff) and would sit down Whatever I've said seems to go down a treatĪnd we were back and forth every day. This girl I met last week is great and we seemed to connect really well. So yeah, internet dating at least lets me get myself accross. Did I mention I'm only attracted to black women? lol, I feel like headbutting the wall! Despite what people claim, I've found many times that these points DO cause difficulties for me, and that people do judge books by the cover and the shop they're sold in. I'm a decent guy and yep, could date girls I meet out and about, but I like internet dating because it gives me more options for my taste - I'm white, been told I look quite thuggish and come from a town that's basically BNP all round. I've dated online once before, and though it didn't work out after the first date, it felt more special than anyĭate I've had with a girl met "in the real world" even the ones that worked out better, so roughly a year later I've decided to have another shot. I've been exchanging messages with a lovely young lady that I met a week ago on a well-known dating site. Should I even bother hearing what he has to say? It makes me upset that he would come back to tell me bad news 3 weeks later, as if the silence wasn’t loud enough of a message already.I'm not sure if there's an answer to this, I think it's one of them where I just need to get it off my chest.
#RADIO SILENCE IN A RELATIONSHIP FREE#
No word yet, but I’m not really expecting to hear from him until tonight or whenever he has a free chance.Ĭan you guys give me any advice on how I should go about this? I still like him, but I had already begun the moving on process. I responded a few hours later after I got home from an Oscars viewing party.
Moving on! Last night he reaches out and apologizes for the extended period of silence, and asks me how I’m doing. After a week I decided his message was pretty loud and clear, figuring he probably ghosted and was too coward to tell me anything, fine I get it. And in my mind I’m cueing bad news already.ģ weeks pass, radio silence. I asked him if he even liked me as more than a friend bc I felt a little pushed away that night and at this point (4-5 months in) I wanted to know if a relationship was even something he was open to. 3 weeks ago we had a day time date and it started off fine, but sometime in the middle of the date I felt something shift and I couldn’t figure out why… it had been several months of this dragged out gray area dating period so after the date I decided to talk to him about it. However throughout the entire time we maintained contact and were always trying to see each other. We ended up having sex for the first time right before the holidays, so we didnt have much chance to see each other until we got back from new year’s. We really hit it off! Unfortunately, there were lulls in our dating period due to busy work schedule, out of town trips/family visits, the holidays, life, the usual. Me and this guy met in September and started going out on dates once every few weeks.
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